These days, people come to chastity for many different (and much more consensual) reasons. It could be from a BDSM aspect: limiting your submissives right to cum can be a sexual or non-sexual turn on for them, or for you. For some, it is used as a signifier of the caged one's devotion to the dominant / keyholder. Others might enjoy it from a humiliation or teasing standpoint, for example caging one up only to try to turn them on in other ways without allowing them any kind of release, or laughing at how sad their genitals look all caged up. Another reason might be long distance partners or when one half of a couple is going away on a trip, to ensure they don't share their precious family jewels with anyone else. Other folks just get off on the idea of not being able to cum at will, and not knowing when the keyholder might decide to unlock them, if at all!
It's important to remember with this or any other BDSM activities that consent is a very important factor. That is to say, the person being locked down not only consents to the activity but that the risks have been understood and explained, and there are safety precautions in place. In practice this might look like a dominant storing a spare key at a secret place in the submissive's house in case of emergency, or using plastic numbered locks rather than metal ones so that the device can be removed quickly and easily if something goes wrong. It might mean that the chastity device is removed once a day by the keyholder to maintain cleanliness before being locked back on. A mutually agreed safeword or traffic light system should also be in place so that the submissive can truly revel in their submission while knowing that if something went really wrong along the way, they would be able to communicate this to their top and be set free from their prison.
Metal Chastity Cages
If you're looking for a heavier chastity experience with a bit of a medieval aesthetic, steel is the way to go! Be prepared for the extra weight that going down the steel route brings to genital confinement compared to the lightweight polycarbonates and softer silicone alternatives. For many wearers, that extra weight provides a constant reminder and excitement in the knowing that they are securely locked away.
The cock cage is locked in by a cock ring that sits at the back of the cock and balls which assists in not only securing the cock cage on to the penis but also provides a little bit of extra stimulation by promoting blood flow into the penis whilst it’s outer pressure slows the blood's release. The result… the user becomes aroused and this arousal is often met with a predicament as any erection will be met with the tight constriction of steel bars pressing against the users penis and the complete denial of a full erection or orgasm.
Here at Eagle Leather, we have had great feedback from BON4's metal cages and we regard them as some of the best on the market. In the newer models we stock now, there have been improvements made to the hinge mechanism, which is now very smooth and does not irritate the perineum.
These can be really fun for play sessions or chastity lasting a day or two, where the sensation and the high level of security is more important than the level of comfort, but if you are looking for longer term wear we would probably recommend the polycarbonate cages over these.
The Regular size is a suitable fit for most penises (recommended for penis size 2.6-4"), while the Large size is great for bigger penises (flaccid 4"-5.2"), but also works for regularly endowed wearers to be able to get semi-hard but not fully - an added enjoyment for many a top interested in teasing the caged individual. The Micro is a more recent addition to the range, which suits the less endowed folks with a flaccid penis of between 1.4-2.6".
If you're not sure on sizing, the BON4 Plus Kit is a great option as it comes with both the regular and the long cage plus a variety of back rings.
Beware of wearing these at airports as you will definitely set off the metal detectors!
Silicone Chastity Devices
These are our most recommended cages if you are starting out! Very lightweight and soft to the touch, these silicone chastity cages are super comfortable to wear. Due to the soft silicone texture, this chastity device allows more comfort whilst the wearer rolls around on the floor begging to be released and can be easily squished by the hand of your key holder whilst the device itself retains it’s security and integrity.
They come with a variety of back rings and many wearers often report them being a bit more comfortable to wear than the harder polycarbonate and heavier stainless versions. These can be great to try for a week or two and see if chastity is something you are into, without the larger financial commitment of buying a metal or polycarbonate cage.
These cages are also great for securing your partner for an interstate or overseas holiday as they are made from silicone and supplied with numbered plastic locks - so no problem getting through airport security and their metal detectors. ;) No two numbers are the same so take a photo of the number before you farewell them on the plane, and you can check that they return with the same numbered lock when they land back in your city. At the same time, in case of emergency, they can cut the numbered locks without a key (but the lock can't be relocked after this so it'll be easy to tell if they've broken your rules!).
The regular size cage suits most penises (recommended for flaccid up to 4"), while the larger suits the more well endowed among us (flaccid penises 4"-5"), or if the keyholder wants to permit the wearer to get semi-hard while locked down. The holes along the cage shaft can be fun for running fingers or tongues along for a bit of sensation while still locked.. the ultimate tease.
We have found from our experience that using olive oil or an oil based lube under the silicone cage is the best way to keep from chafing. Don't use silicone lube with these toys or it will damage the cage permanently, and water based lube dissolves into the skin too quickly.
Polycarbonate Chastity Cages
The polycarbonate range by CB-X could well be defined as the gold standard of chastity gear. They are extremely strong, durable and secure but they have also been made with comfort in mind.
We've been selling these cages for a couple of decades now and we get consistently great feedback on their comfort especially for longer term wear. CB-X is the leading brand on the market for serious chastity, and the CB6000 is probably the most well known and well loved device of all.
Medical grade polycarbonate ensures hygienic caging which is extremely lightweight yet secure. The experienced team at CB-X have rigorously tested and reviewed their designs to ensure they are suited to long-term wear. These are not just "training" or "play time" type toys but are actually built to last and keep you in chastity long term if you (or your keyholder) desires!
The CB-6000 is the best selling "standard" size, suited to flaccid penises up to 3.25" in length. For shorter shafts, the CB6000S suits up to 2.5" long. Finally The Curve suits bigger penises (up to 3.75" flaccid) or those who want to be able to get a semi-erection while still being locked down.
The Curve is a slightly different design than the other two, with long open sections running along the shaft. This is an excellent design in terms of opportunities for sensations, but also for cleaning as the gaps are wide enough to use a toothbrush between the slats to ensure appropriate hygiene if you're stuck in chastity for a long time. The only real downside to these cages is that because of their length they can be hard to hide under clothing!
Just for Fun
If you are not sure if you are into chastity yet and don't want to invest in a premium cage without trying it first, these entry level fun cages can be enjoyable for a few hours during a play session, or to get an idea of the sensation before making the leap to a more long term cage.
Chastity Add Ons
Just because your family jewels are locked down, doesn't mean there's no fun to be had whilst you are chastity!
The excitement of being touched can be elevated by the feeling of knowing it's not possible to get an erection or to rip your cage off and be jerked off until you cum (unless your keyholder so desires!).
Many chastity fans love the sensation of catnails or pin wheels gently scraped along the shaft of their penises, especially if the cage has plenty of gaps where the skin can be reached. A tongue can also provide intense, teasing sensations. Add a blindfold for some sensory deprivation play and take it to the next level.
Urethral sounds are an interesting toy that can still be easily enjoyed and add an extra layer of sensation while you're locked down. Flexible silicone sounds are the easiest to combine with a cage, as they are bendable depending on the shape of your device and can be easily inserted through the front hole of most cages (a hole normally positioned for the passing of urine) whilst being worn by the user. You can even level up with electro sounds if you are wanting more intense sensations.
Long term chastity means the desire to cum can get stronger than ever over time. It's also good for your prostate health to ensure you ejaculate regularly. A great way to enjoy an orgasm while still locked in your cage is through prostate milking, a process which involves applying pleasurable sensations directly onto the prostate and "milking" it until a white fluid begins to drip out of the penis.
Prostate milking is not easy and does take practice to work up to a point of ejaculation. We recommend an anal electrode device for prostate milking by applying the electrode into the rectum and allowing the device to sit over the prostate gland. This should stimulate and cause a pulsing contraction that should help produce a prostate ejaculation. We would recommend using the Moaner Electrode for the most easiest and effective way to enjoy this very different kind of orgasm! You can use this bipolar electrode alone or combine it with an electrosound while still in your cage for a mind blowing hand free electroejaculation!
Chastity Hygiene
Depending on the cage you choose, you can still be hygienic while wearing the cage for long durations.
Some cages, like The Curve, feature long openings along the length of the shaft. You can use a soft-bristled toothbrush to gently clean between the gaps while in the shower.
Other folks find that it is best for the keyholder to remove the cage, allow the wearer to shower and clean (while in full view of the keyholder of course, to avoid any unnecessary self pleasuring), and then replace the cage immediately afterwards.
Chastity Safety
Spare Keys
It's always a good idea for the keyholder to keep a spare key at the wearers place in a secret location in case of emergency. Alternatively, you can use numbered plastic locks - no two numbers are the same so take a photo of the number once you have locked them in, and you can keep them in bondage knowing they will only cut it open in an emergency, and if they do, they won't be able to put the lock back on without you knowing!
Can't remove your chastity cage?
Have you accidentally used a backring that was too small and got your cock and balls stuck? Try a very cold shower, an ice bath or a bag of frozen peas (yep really!) to reduce the size of your genitals, then lots of silicone or oil based lube squirted under the ring to get it off.
Are you in pain or is your junk swelling up? If this is happening and you can't remove your cage, don't go at yourself with dangerous sharp tools! If you are in a safety predicament, it's always best to take yourself to an emergency department. Don't be ashamed, as they have definitely seen it all before and they will know how to get you out in a safe way. The process may be quicker and easier than you might expect.
Wearing cages overnight
It is generally recommended that cages not be worn for long periods, especially overnight because you can actually get uncontrollable swelling in your sleep and become trapped, and you may not be consciously aware of your condition while you are asleep.
As with anything in BDSM, assess the risks, educate yourself on what to do if you get in a bind and if you still want to do it, at least you've taken all the precautions you can to enjoy your kink as safely as possible. Have fun!